“I must not fear.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.
Where the fear has gone there will be nothing……Only I will remain.”
– Frank Herbert
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We take our freedo
m for granted so often, don’t we? We can go where we want when we want to, say how we feel, do what we love to do. We know this, and yet surround ourselves with barriers, with reasons not to take the step out into the unknown.
We don’t follow our bliss, because although the idea of adventure is exciting, actually taking the chance is terrifying. Living your life gripped by fear of the unknown is no way to live, but how do you make the transition?
Like in all things, it’s best to start small. People are fabulous at adjusting, it’s one of the more impressive traits of our species.
We can change and adapt to our circumstances. For example, have you ever had a real terrible experience that lasted more than a few weeks, like an unfitting relationship or a frustrating job, and you look back and wonder just how you made it through?
You made it because:
a) you are stronger than you know and b) you adapted.
When it comes to making changes, making smaller adjustments over a longer period of time is the key to seeing them become part of your life. If you start too big, by taking on too much, you’ll become overwhelmed, and you’ll return to your old ways in no time (which is why so many New Years Resolutions ultimately fail.) If you’re on the cusp of being brave and taking the leap into the unknown, even if it’s a little unknown, you are a girl on a ledge.
You can choose to turn around, return to where you came from, and never know what lies over the side, or you can choose to take the leap of faith and begin to change your life for the better.
Let’s Talk a Bit About Bravery What do you think of when you think of bravery? Do you think of a soldier on a dangerous mission?
What about a single mother of two who has an upcoming interview at a new job? Or a bright girl with unsupportive parents who tries out for the high school basketball team?
Contrary to what you might think, being brave comes in all shapes and sizes, and is subjective to each person. Sometimes, just getting out of bed in the morning is an act of bravery, and learning to recognize these small successes is incredibly important in this life journey.
So many times, you are reminded of your limitations, of all the things that you can’t or shouldn’t do. Today I encourage you to yes, know your limitations, but at the same time, examine your possibilities. Stop telling yourself that you can’t, sure there are some things you can’t do, and start thinking about all the things you can do. If this is you, if you’re the girl on the ledge, you have the choice to stay in the life you have now.
You can stay in a bad relationship or in a frustrating job or keep spending time with people who bring you down.
Or you can take a step off the side, examine all of your possibilities, and start to fly.
Who knows, you might even soar.
Here’s to the wild ones.
The ones that follow their dreams.
The ones that don’t take no for an answer.
The ones that failed and didn’t stop.
The ones that looked fear in the face and laughed.
The ones that give it everything they got.
The ones that wake up every day and do it all over again!
XO
Marisa
